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Jul 29

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fancycake:

ugh i’m having a lot of buffy feelings rn

i’m watching the ep where willow tells buffy that she’s seeing tara and there’s like, this split second where willow pauses before coming out and she takes a really controlled breath and is so clearly trying so hard to be calm and collected but man, i can practically feel her heart pounding in her throat

idk idk it makes me all wibbly and nervous and reminds me of that horrible state of not-knowing right before you come out to someone and UGH

babies

Btw that post was just inspired by my tumblr dash.

There were engagement rings and stuff and I was like, ugh, the wedding industrial complex, whatever and then there was a post that was like “threesomes” and I was like YEAH.

And then I was like Amanda you do monogamy and you love weddings even more than you hate them.

And I was like oh.

I Think Monogamy Is Silly But I Have Too Many Issues To Be Able To Navigate Dating Multiple People At Once Without Turning Into A Crazy Whiny Baby: a novel by me.

i-effed-it-all-up:

she’s beauty and she’s grace, she plays 8 different people who have the same face

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“That’s the problem with putting others first; you’ve taught them you come second.” —

read that, again.  (via fridaynights-citylights)

Whoa

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Okay pseudonymitea reblogged this post from me with important tags and I sent her a message explaining my thought process but on reflection I would like to make it public: I think it is not in any way a bad thing to put other people first sometimes even often and it’s important to keep in mind that if someone is an abusive shitstain who doesn’t care about your feelings at all you are in no way “letting” them be that way or “teaching” them to be. I do think it’s important to make sure that your needs are getting met in relationships and to make that a priority because no one else can be as familiar with what your needs are as you can be. If you consistently sit on those needs and don’t speak up about them, then I do believe a dynamic will sometimes emerge where on the list of “things to be considering in this relationship,” your needs are lower than they should be.

(Source: angiellehcim, via purpleterpsichore)

“Women hear it all the time from men. “You’re overreacting,” we tell them. “Don’t worry about it so much, you’re over-thinking it.” “Don’t be so sensitive.” “Don’t be crazy.” It’s a form of gaslighting — telling women that their feelings are just wrong, that they don’t have the right to feel the way that they do. Minimizing somebody else’s feelings is a way of controlling them. If they no longer trust their own feelings and instincts, they come to rely on someone else to tell them how they’re supposed to feel.” — Men really need to stop calling women crazy. (via pandacola)

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“That’s the problem with putting others first; you’ve taught them you come second.” —

read that, again.  (via fridaynights-citylights)

Whoa

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(Source: angiellehcim, via tangledupinlace)

alltheladiesyouhate:

bi/pan women are not more or less oppressed than lesbian women. they’re differently oppressed. stop promoting the idea that one group is more privileged than the other. situational lack of oppression is not the same thing as privilege.

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